This amazing song, written by a group of Penn State students and alumni in the wake of the sexual abuse case, is dedicated to the victims hoping to bring them healing and comfort. Proceeds from the sale of the song, which is available on iTunes, are being generously donated to Darkness to Light. Our thanks to Joe Conrad who performs the song and the Penn State students and alumni who are putting their talents to create something positive out of something tragic.
What Can We Learn From Penn State
It's unfortunate that it takes national headlines to get people talking about a problem that is all too prevalent in our society. However, we can take advantage of this opportunity to shine the light on the issue of child sexual abuse and recognize that we all have a responsibility to protect children.
- This issue is not about big universities, celebrity, or one headline. It's not about reputations, or legacies or any one institution. This issue is about children.
- We have to step into the reality that there are people in our midst that would rob children of their innocence and they are people we know and trust. They will go out of their way to appear above reproach and they will infiltrate our families and organizations where they can have easy access to children.
- It takes tremendous courage for children and adults that have been abused to come forward and that our reactions can create a safe and supportive enviornment for others to share their story. We must support and honor the courage of victims and survivors and work together to put an end to sexual abuse for other innocent children.
- Child safety is the job of an adult. Teaching children how to keep themselves safe from abuse is important, but adults bear the burden of stepping up and speaking out when something doesn't look or feel right with respect to the wellbeing of a child. Reporting sexual abuse is simply the right thing to do regardless of one's legal responsibility as a mandated reporter. If you see something or suspect abuse, call the police.
- The ramifications of not acting responsibly are clear. More abuse occurs, more children are harmed, fewer children get the help they so deserve. To be silent bystanders is to be complicit in its occurrance and wake. To intervene is to ensure that a child is treated and supported, that they are healed and better protected from potential lifelong hardships of trauma.
- Child sexual abuse is preventable. We can learn the facts, we can acknowledge the reality, we can talk to others adults, we can ensure youth serving organizations have comprehensive child protection policy, and we can talk to our children. Awareness and education is the answer.
- The fight against child abuse cannot be the job of one individual or one agency; it has to be a collaborative effort. It will take all of us to change culture--to one where engaged adults offer no place for a perpetrator to commit their heinous acts and no access to children.
- We can be stuck in the shock and horror of what happened at Penn State staying focused on who knew what and when or we can pledge right now to stay focused on the things we can do today that better protect children. Let Penn State serve as a wake-up call. Will we stay vigilant or will we again become complacent when the smoke clears?
Ways to Get Involved
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